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STEP ONE to Value and Purpose

“What God wants today is a large group of God – men; this group of God – men is the one new man, the corporate God – man bearing the image of God for the expression of God.” Witness Lee


 ·      On day 6 of creation God created you in His image


God has made it very clear that He has created ALL of mankind, m…



From years of living through my own personal “hell,” to working with hundreds of men from all walks of life one common theme keeps popping up. Many men today are meandering about without a fixed course, aim, or goal, and have gone astray wandering away from what it means to be a man, the creat…

King of a Man

Drafting the success path for my Project19 brand

Project19 Success Path

You are the image of God, but you find yourself wandering through life. You are unsure and question your purpose. You’ve suppressed your goals and dreams or may have even forgotten them completely. You have belief but lack the tools and guidance to make those d…


“Human behavior is incredibly pliable, plastic.” Phillip Zimbarco

“Pliable means bendable but not breakable. Wax is pliable, good leather is pliable. If you describe a person as pliable, it usually means that he’s easily influenced.”

Men, let’s …

Part 2: Dare to Answer?

“The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.” Martin Luther King Jr

Men, I challenged you last week to answer these questions:


 1.   WHO WAS I?

 2.   WHO AM I?

 3.   WHO DO I WA...

Part 1: Dare to Answer?

“Men make history and not the other way around. In periods where there is no leadership, society stands still. Progress occurs when courageous, skillful leaders seize the opportunity to change things for the better.” Harry S Truman

Did you read what the late President Truman wrote? Men are history makers because they dare to seize the moments of opportunity that are …

Men of Action!

“Think like a man of action, and act like a man of thought.” Sallust

In essence, the late Jim Rohn declared that we should work harder on ourselves than we do anything else if we want to make more money, have a greater marriage, or live a grander lifestyle. This of course demands that we take aggressive action!

If we want to be the GREATNESS that God …

Thriving Men!

“Every precious thing that you want out of life starts from believing that you possess an unstoppable drive to continuously strive and thrive.” Edmond Mbiaka

Men, inside each and every one of us is an insatiable desire to thrive, achieve, and succeed in life. At who we are and want to be. As a husband and a father. In business and in our private lives. We want …

Seedless Existence – Infertilty in Men.

Whenever I hear about infertility the subject seems to focus mainly, if not soley, around women.

Rarely is the subject highlighting the issues that men face with the same medical condition.

A few years back, upon speaking with a good friend who was desperately wanting to be a father, I had come to have an even deeper understanding of what may run through ...

The Crusher of Dreams…Tales from The Locker Room

Remember your first years in middle school, when you had to change your clothes in public. Walking into that locker room. You saw those locker rooms in numerous movies, but it’s nothing like stopping by for the first time in real life. 

Watching this on TV was not nearly as nerve-wracking as this solo adventure. Remember your first t...

Get Your Bounce Back! Part 3: Kicking Porn

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is now.” – Chinese proverb

“Sometimes you can only find Heaven by slowly backing away from Hell.” – Carrie Fisher

IT’S TIME! Men, we need to regain our lives and Get Our Bounce Back, by overcoming and conquering porn. Let’s face it, nearly 7 out of 10 of us has ski…

Get Your Bounce Back! Part 2: PORN

Proven Men Porn Survey (conducted by Barna Group), located at is the source most sited in this article:

“93% of boys are exposed to porn before the age of 18… the average age to view porn for the first time is 8!” Kirk Cameron.


A Man’s Struggles

Life is hard and it’s a tough road. There’s an understanding that, we all go through experiences to learn things and grow from those experiences. Through it all, we struggle, go through trials and tribulations to get to where we are supposed to be. So why is it that society has trained our minds to look at men as weak because we go through struggles in life?

It’s o…

Tug Of War Part 3: Created To Conquer

“All I know is grind!” Ray Lewis. In the tug of war between “Is this all there is?” and “living the dream!” man has been created to conquer and thrive!

As the created image (phantom, illusion, representation) of God we reflect these four characteristics of Him: Being fruitful and multiplying, filling the earth, subduing, and taking dominion! How ab…

Tug Of War Part 2: No Greater Purpose

Are you still stuck between, “Is this all there is?” and “Living the dream?” I believe that most men truly want to “live” the proverbial “dream”, but find themselves stuck in the land of, “Is this it?”

Take it from me, there is so much more to life and no greater calling than “man.” I should know because sixteen years ago I threw it all away. I guess you could…

Tug Of War

Masculinity, what is it? Biblically speaking, men are called to be leaders; frontiersmen blazing the trail ahead, and the head of their homes.

But what about our purpose? It seems that more and more men today are lost, wandering and meandering through life trying to find their purpose. “Just because I am a man doesn’t make me an expert on the subject?” men ques…

Grown Men Cry Too

For some societal-repressed reason it was determined that men shouldn’t leave their homes without masking their emotions and suiting up in armour. This as a means of protection against showing any real raw emotion. It doesn’t seem right that people pretend to be OK when they might be falling apart and it can’t be healthy to hide emotion, faking inner s…

Reasons Why All Men Need Therapy

Let me preface this by saying I’m part of the group that needs therapy, too. Here’s what I’ve learned from both my personal and professional experiences: Growth is not a light switch. It’s a lifestyle, something we must thread into our daily lives. And therapy can be the nee...