WHAT’S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT?

Archie Lee
Archie Lee is a diverse author who strives for personal excellence through a commitment to volunteerism in his community, helping it to achieve its full ethnic, health, political and social potential. Archie Lee graduated from the University of Arkansas at Pine Bluff in 2005 with a Bachelor of Arts in Sociology and a commission in the U.S. Army. An active member of the Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity since 2006, he also earned a Masters Degree in Management in 2009. Archie Lee is a strong advocate in social psychology. As a relationship expert and youth counselor, he loves social interaction and identifying character traits with people in general, primarily studying human social interaction.
Relationships

Dec 28,2016

Love is central to human relationships. There are many kinds of love. In this segment, the primary type of love I will discuss is romantic love. Also I will not be discussing the scientific portion of love, but rather focus on human actions and behaviors. Romantic love is a combination of intimacy, passion, and  generally involves a mix of emotional attachment and sexual desire. Romantic love can generate many powerful feelings. From these feeling comes the “being in love” that we experience in physical intimate relationships.

For a woman, the love component is a huge part of her life. It provides her a source of deep fulfillment and expression.

In a man, she looks for compatibility, kindness, honesty and the ability to protect and provide. Once the emotional connection is there, you become the “chosen one” She has accepted you as her “ideal man” the perfect mate for her. Men need to understand once she has made up her mind about being with you. Ninety percent of the time, she is in it for the long haul and she will submit to you.   

On the other side of the spectrum, men rarely think about falling in love. When a man first notice a woman, he is focused on her physical appearance. Most men look for physical health, well maintenance and nice curvy body (not to overweight and not too underweight, this is based on the average male). To make things a little bit clearer, men often choose a woman based upon the sex. The trust building, loyalty, personality and energy attributes comes later if he is looking at her as a potential long-term mate.

Men are individuals, so it is their preference to pick what he desires (always remember that “beauty is in the eye of the beholder.”). The truth is that men are slow at appreciating a woman’s internal beauty. Once a man figures out you are the one, he will fall for you and be the faithful lover, friend and provider that he was design to be. This is his version of being in love.

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